Men share their experiences
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Many men think the domestic abuse or domestic violence is only happening to them and no other man has suffered in the same way.

This is not true, as the Government’s own statistics show that one in five men will be a victim in their lifetime.

Our help-line receives calls from dustmen to doctors to bakers and bankers, from right across the UK from the full range of backgrounds, job, race or sexuality.

To give any men the confidence to come forward and to reassure them that they are not alone, some of the men we have helped in the past tell their story (names have been changed to respect anonymity).

Also some men have been interviewed in the media as they want to give confidence to their fellow men that they are not alone.

Men and mothers tell their stories to ManKind:

David’s story

Gary’s story

Sharon’s story

Sebastian’s story

Fiona’s Story

Terry’s Story

Wajid's Story

George's Story

(Stories are based on calls to ManKind. Names have been changed to protect the caller’s identity.)

 

Men tell their stories - Media

Radio 4 (20th August 2008) http://www.bbc.co.uk/radio4/saturdaylive/saturdaylive_20080809.shtml

Radio 1 Extra (27th February 2009) http://www.bbc.co.uk/1xtra/tx/documentaries/domesticabuse.shtml

The One Show (5th March 2009) http://www.bbc.co.uk/blogs/theoneshow/consumer/2009/03/05/why-dont-men-report-domestic-v.html

The Sun (5th May 2009) http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/real_life/article2411968.ece

BBC Humber (5th May 2009) http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/humber/8034962.stm

Sky News (1st March 2010)
http://news.sky.com/skynews/Home/UK-News/Domestic-Violence-Man-Dies-Every-Three-Weeks-Claims-Support-Group-In-New-Campaign/Article/201003115562684

Daily Mirror (8th March 2010)
http://www.mirror.co.uk/life-style/real-life/2010/03/11/a-male-victim-of-domestic-violence-explains-why-he-was-living-in-fear-of-his-wife-115875-22101166/

ITV’s This Morning Show (12th April 2010)
http://www.itv.com/lifestyle/thismorning/healthandwellbeing/maledomesticviolence/

 

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